I am a single girl and available...

I am a single girl all alone in a big and lonely city .All my friends have steady boyfriends or are married and some have kids.

I am normal , attractive ,slim looking and have a great job. My biological clock is ticking and I want to settle down and start a family.


I cannot find the right guy . I dated a few but it did not go beyond the 2nd or 3rd date. I feel the world is passing me by.

Are you desperate ? Nah!
 

You would bravely tell the whole world that you are not desperate to get married .You will live your life to the fullest and enjoy traveling all over the world .

With today’s women going to the universities, by the time they come out, they will be 26 and after a few years working to repay their debts, they would reach 30 in quick time. Where do they have the time to think of marriage ?

More over , the playing field seems to get smaller and smaller as they ascent higher and higher in the educational fields.If they want to get married, they will have to lower their qualification standards and not judge a man by the paper degree’s.

One in three women is still single by the time she is 35,one in five women has not had a baby by the age of 40 according to a new survey.

Where are you on this scale of divide? The top half or the bottom half.? You are not alone so no worries..LOL!

You may be so busy with work or going on vacations that soon you will find that age is creeping up on you.You may have missed the last ferry to La La land.You will resigned to your fate and destiny.

Some girls may have no choice and have to travel that road .Others may lower their expectations when they are nearer 40 so as not to miss the last ferry.

You wondered why you are still single when you have all those good qualities .You could have the best the world can offer you but sadly that is not happening.All the good men are taken or are married or dead. You rue your miss chances .

You keep on waiting for your shiny knight in armour to rescue you from your plight.You dream everyday and it is a long dream and it may never materialize.

You rationalize and justify why you are still single and you can be happy being single” or “You’ll get married one day when the time and the man is right.

Meanwhile , you might want to do your masters and make more money  like the others in the same office.

Will it come or will you be a wall flower ? If you cannot find a fish , will you be satisfied with prawns?

How is your “sell by user date .” Still valid or expired?
How fast is your biological clock ticking?
I hope it wont run like crazy..LOL!


credit and thanks to:-

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/femail/article.html?in_article_id=448044&in_page_id=1879

http://www.metro.co.uk/metrosexual/metrosexual/article.html?in_article_id=63827&in_page_id=8


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Mak Nyahs or transsexuals

They dress like women and act like them but they are males and some have undergone the sexual reorientations while the majority still retains their sexual organs.

They are not made but are born into that state, for no ordinary men would want to be like them .In some society , they are sometimes treated as an outcast or an aberrations .

They will be called derogatory names ,discriminated  against , scorned and  ridiculed . Such is the life of a transsexual who wants to come out of his closet.

The braves ones will not be bothered by the taunts and humiliations heaped upon them by their society as they are happier being a transsexual . They face bureaucratic red tapes to change their sex on their identification cards and this can cause them problems when applying for jobs. The lucky few will get to be employed while others will be self employed and the rest will have to ply their trades or walk the streets to support themselves.

I have observed that a majority of the men who came out of their closets are in the 40's and they started living to their true inner self.The urge to become a female becomes too overbearing and they could not hide it any longer.They find their inner peace at last.

It has been a long drawn out battle to fight and suppress those urges or female feelings .It was like having a man and a woman fighting inside their body to take control of the driver's seat.

Initially , they may face some resistance from their parents or siblings but in time , they will come to accept the situations and life becomes normal again.If they looked beautiful or feminine, no one will know that she is a man except those who are his friends or those with a keen eye and can differentiate them from the real females.

In some cases , they are even more beautiful and sexier than the ordinary females. The Adam's apple , the broad shoulders and the maleness in the voice may betray their sex. .

The transsexuals have a chance to live as a man and as a woman and if they gets tired of being a female , they could always revert back to their original forms.

It is very funny that when they become a female after taking those  hormones, they will behave and act like a female .They will buy lots of shoes,apparels,cosmetics, accessories and handbags . When they were a man , they would criticize their WAGS about wasting so much money on those items.

This is probably due to those hormones and it's side effects. LOL! You do not understand a woman because it is her hormones which controls her. Just like a man is controlled by his testosterone hornones.

Those hormones are what is driving them to act in that way. There can be no logical or scientific reasons why women thinks of shopping every minute while the men think of sex.

 In Malaysia, which is an Islamic country , sex change operations is not recognized by the authorities and the only condition permissible  is a person who is born a hermaphrodite , having both the sexual organs of the male and female. In other Islamic countries , the sex change operations is allowed.

For to dress outside would court troubles with the law. They could be fined , jailed or both or  send to be indoctrinated and brain washed until you repent and become straight like them.

While a Christian transsexuals may not attend any church as most churches will not accept them . Try going to one and you will will either have to dress like a man or they will tell you off as you will poison the minds of those youngsters.You are a very bad influence . Just like the gays, you are not welcome to those mainstream churches unless they do not know you are one.


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Think positive - Live longer & healthier.

It has been discovered that those who have faith and trust in God can deal better with life incidents than those who do not believe in God. Those who do not believe in God would give up earlier and would be more negative .

The tongue is a very powerful weapon, speak negatively and the negatives will find you . The mind can be controlled by the tongue and if you are not careful with your tongue , you can find those words coming back to haunt you .

Are you an optimist or a pessimist? What’s an optimist or a pessimist?

An optimist is a person who has a disposition or tendency

to look on the more favourable side of events or conditions and to expect the most favourable outcome.

A pessimist is a person who has the tendency to see, anticipate, or emphasize only bad or undesirable outcomes, results, conditions, problems,

(http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/optimism )


Whatever negative things occur in his life, an optimist would view it positively and be in control of the situation.

He would expect things to get better and he will not be much affected or stressed out by that events.


I am an optimist. I like to look at the positive sides of events. Whatever bad happens, I would be fatalistic about it.


We have to accept that there are things which happens and it is inevitable and it is fated.

Many events in our life are destined to happen whether you like it or not.It is written in the Book Of Life.


If an accident is going to happen to you , it will happen no matter how unless it is not fated or through some divine interventions.Just as many women worry about everything .


Why worry about it when you cannot do anything in your power?You have to cast your worries on to Jesus and let Him deal with your worries. We need to have this kind of mindset.

You use your limited resources from your brain for useless activities like worrying . You should instead pray to God and quit worrying .

Having a positive attitude can lower your blood pressure and cholesterol levels. The problem is just a mole hill but you made it look like a big mountain.

It can improves your physical and mental well beings as you will eat healthy foods and have regular exercises and avoid those bad habits like smoking ,drinking and not sleeping enough.

Want to live longer - think positive for a healthy mind and a healthy body!
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Why having friends is essentially important to married women ?

No man is an island and for women this is more true because her life would not be satisfactory if she lives alone or without her friends especially her female friends.

A woman is a pack animal for she is not made to live a loner . She needs the support and camaraderie of her own kinds in order to survive in this unfair world.

After getting married , her friends will slowly fade into the background as she devouts much of her time to her new world .She may move away from her old friends to a new set of his friends.



Her partner may try to cut her off from all her friends as he may dislike her for mixing with them and poisoning her mind against him.Those men prefer them to be ignorant and under their controls.

In the new world , she may not have the time for her friends but when things are settled down , she should resume her friendship with some of her best friends.

As we go along in life , we will have many types of friends.From childhood to the end of our days. We will meet lots of people and they become our friends .Friends who know who you are and meet daily or see each other often. Some people can make friends easily because they are friendly and warmth while some are cold and aloof.

True friends are a rarity , who stick around through thick and thin with you . We have many friends whom we call drink buddies .

True friendship is something special. It gives you support and companionship, builds up your self-esteem and shares your joys , happiness and whatever emotional ups and downs. Having a true friend means you are never completely alone.

There are three types of friends:-

1. Friendships made through shared activities such as evening or natal classes, sport or work. The relationships that you form with these people can seem very intense because you spend so much time with them,but in fact, they are often superficially pleasant, but not very deep and they may end once you move on.

2. Historical friendships that go back many years, perhaps childhood, schooldays or teenage years.You often feel warm and nostalgic about these friendships but they too could still be quite superficial.

3.Soul friendships are the most lasting. These are the people you trust and open up to. You tell them the truth about yourself, your life, and your feelings. You don't have to play games and you can let your guard down. Bless you if your friendship is a soul friendship.

There is another kind of friends,internet friends. Friends you have never met in real life until your paths crossed.You know them in the virtual world and they may share their secrets with you like a very close and intimate friend.

A man cannot talk about many girlish subjects and when it comes to woman's affairs, it will take another woman to understand what they are going through.Women relate better with each other and this is why they need their friends to keep them sane .

Her friends are like the sunlight , the water and the fertilizer and without them , she will wilt and not bloom to her full potentials.
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The woman who stands by her man.

What do you call those women who stand by their man when he has committed the foulest sin of having an affair, stupid, dumb or just pragmatic ?

The modern independent women would not tolerate such a state of affairs and would seek divorce from him.

There are some who can forgive their spouse and stay together and some paralyzed with indecision's .Whether you want to divorce him or not , forgiveness is a must to heal your hurts and to close this chapter in your life.

I love the country and Western song,'Stand by your man' by Tammy Wynete and the lyrics are beautiful.



Lyrics | Wynette, Tammy - Stand by Your Man lyrics


There are more temptations for the modern men to cheat as there are more women working in the offices and factories.The term 'office spouse' is commonly heard these days.

We need to understand why the men cheated.Generally , most women feel aggrieved when their spouse cheated and blame it on the men without looking at themselves.It is easy to see others mistakes than one's own. They may need to see the perspectives from the man's world and not only through their feminine eyes..

It is easier for a man to have an affair than a woman because women are more discerning and not in it just for the sex thingy.

Men are like egotistical little boys who need constant attentions. When you have kids and a home , the women tend to pay less attention to the men.

When the men meet with a younger version of his wife and who idolize him and worship the ground that he walks on ,sparks can fly .

Some women tolerate his affairs as long as they are better treated than the mistress.This happens to those Alpha males like rock stars,tycoons, MP's and royalties.They are so wealthy and the other women are attracted to them like flies to the bright light even if they are married.

In fact , there are women who do not mind as long as they do not mention heror he kept her in the backgrounds.They learn to cope with their philandering husbands as long as she is recognized as the wife in the family.

If the men have ended the affairs , I think it is better to forgive him and move on with your life. He made a mistake and if you divorce him , you may regret later somewhere down the road as he is such a character which you may never meet again .

Those who stand by the man is because they still love him and understands he is not perfect . It could be economic reasons or reputations. Whatever the reasons , he should be given another chance.

To err is only human and to forgive is divine.

Reference and thanks to :-

http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/relationships/article5280408.ece





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Should you confess your extra marital affairs to your partner?

You had no intentions of having an affair or a one night stand but it happened and you regretted it .

You are now in a dilemma whether to tell her or just forget about it . You feel guilty for being unfaithful to your partner and your conscience is troubling you .

Should you tell your partner or not ?

If the affair has ended and you do not have anything to do with her anymore, you should not tell her even if she suspects you . She has no concrete proof and it is best that you let those issues to rest.Bury it and let it rest in peace. In time ,it will be forgotten and will not come in between you .

If you confess to her, you may risk losing her or break up your family life.
You cannot expect her to forgive you and expect everything to be normal again. She is only human and she will be emotionally and mentally affected .It is not easy for her to forgive you even if she is a devout Christian.

You will only pass your burden of guilt to her and she may not forgive you or if she forgives you , your relationship will suffer and will never be the same again.

You know you have made a very bad mistake and you should only confess to God about it and asks for His forgiveness and make restitution's to your wife.Treat it like a bad dream or nightmare and move on with life.

Just deny everything if she asked about it. She will not leave unless it comes from your own mouth.You made a bloody mistake and learn to life with it and take it to the grave with you.

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The feminization of the males.

Recently , there have been some reports about more males who exhibit characteristics of the female.The males of today are softer and more sissy and even baby boys are acting like baby girls.

A down under report states that pollution is turning males with female characteristics and doing harm to their tool kits. More baby girls are being born than baby boys.

The toxins in the food chain are having an effect on the mammals, fish and higher up in the food chain.

We can observe around us that the present generation of males tend to be more feminized or showing those feminine tendencies.

The phthalates which are used in food packaging, cosmetics ,baby powders and other uses have contaminated the surroundings.

The female hormones have been blamed for this phenomenon as those hormones passed through the human body unaltered and to those fish and other living organisms which feeds on this food chain.

If these observations are not taken seriously by the authorities, there may come a time when the males will one day become extinct like the other vanishing animal species.




Reference and thanks to :-


http://www.news.com.au/dailytelegraph/story/0,22049,24768184-5001021,00.html

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The Horrors of Partial Birth Abortion

I will not delve here the horrors of describing such a procedure here , for you can go to this link and read all the details there.
(Warning: That article includes some rather graphic descriptions, so if you are squeamish you may not want to read it.)

In this present generations , young girls are engaging in sexual activities which can cause them to have unplanned and unwanted pregnancies. Many have opted for abortions as they are too young to understand about parenthood and the financial cost of bringing up the child .




Girls as young as 16 or below are making their own decisions to abort without their parents knowledge.

Some of them have multiple abortions in a year or in their life and treat it like a contraceptive method without any disregards to the young life.

We all know that life begins at conception with the formation of an embryo. It is a living thing which may not look in human form at first look but will slowly grow in that direction.

In today's world, those who go for abortions do not understand the gravity of the situation . Their conscience or the lack of it accounts for the record rise in the number of abortions. It seems like the prevailing social custom is to have abortions without any considerations of the young life in making. This is very sad

There maybe people who said they did not regret it but we know that it is not the real truth. The regret and remorse will be with them all their life. The guilt will forever haunt them.

Abortion in the true sense is the killing of a defenseless and innocent life. No amount of words can hide this tragic procedure. Life is sacred .

Those who did not abort found their happiness when the baby was born.


Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.rightgrrl.com/99grrls/February/cheri/pba.html

Pix of embryo, courtesy of :-

http://english.pravda.ru/opinion/feedback/28-11-2008/106760-abortion-0

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Practice safe sex .

Many of today's teens do not receive sex education and are not aware of the dangers of STD's or STI's or knowledgeable about conceptions . As a result ,there is a phenomenal rise in the spread of STD's and unwanted abortions in the world around us.

A sexually transmitted disease (STD) or venereal disease (VD), is an illness due to the transmission between humans or animals by means of sexual contact, including vaginal intercourse, oral sex, and anal sex. All types of sexual activity between two people carry some STD risk.


It can also be transmitted via the use of an IV drug needle after its use by an infected person,tattoo's, blood transfusions, as well as through childbirth or breastfeeding. Some of these STD are chlamydia, gonorrhea, genital herpes,gonorrhea , syphilis and AIDS which has no cure at the present.

There are an estimated 33 million people with AIDS worldwide.Nearly half of all AIDS cases in the U.S. involve people 13 to 24 years of age. Many people are HIV positive and do not know it. The incubation period is six months. Some people may have aids and do not suffer any ill effects in the initial stages.

Many uninformed people think that they can get the STD's only from vaginal sex , not knowing that they are still at risk when they engage in "noncoital" sexual activities such as oral sex, mutual masturbation and anal sex .

Those who visit prostitutes , most often do not use condoms and they do not seemed concern for their own health.They think that getting AIDS is like striking the lottery and when they got it , they regretted and became remorseful .

The age for sex is getting younger and younger through each succeeding generations and it is not surprising that even 12 years old or below are asking or have already engaged in the sex acts.The kids are getting smarter and can learn from the internet and all those chat groups and forums online.

Most people, including adolescents, are unlikely to use condoms during oral sex, which places them at risk for acquiring an STD.

The modern day society is permissive and very open and having too many partners is another factor for the spread of STD's. It will be like playing the game of musical chairs and if you are unlucky you will get the STD.

Reference and thanks to ;-

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexually_transmitted_disease

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Women say they want their partner to be honest. Is this the real truth?

Yes and No !You cannot be too truthful and honest all the time with women.You will be too boring and predictable and may end up being a lonely old man . LOL!

You will only put your relationship into peril and if you want to make her happy and keep getting laid , you should take care to say only positive things about her and make her feel she is the only 'WOMAN!' in your life.


They want you to be honest and true but if you listen to them , you will know that it is wiser sometimes to tell a white lie than to tell her the brutal truth.

There are times when she is not interested in the truth but only wants to hear what she wants to hear. If you tell her what she wants to hear, you will validate her thoughts and you will be closer  or your bonds with her will strengthened further.

Most men do not think deeply or analyze their thoughts before speaking it out. They just let it out without any filter and then when the women reacts negatively or withdraws, will they realize the consequences of their harsh and insensitive words.

It is often a surprise to the men and they blame the women for being fickle minded, for she can change her directions 180 degrees all of a sudden. This can be very perplexing to those men and they will scratch their heads and wonder what they did wrong.

The men believed it must be their hormones which caused them to wild swings from the height of ecstasy to the depth of hell.

They are used to communicating with their male friends in that way and they sometimes forget that they are speaking to a different species who are more sensitive and forever asking in their minds or analyzing every words that comes out of his mouth.

A man may just say a simple statement and think nothing about it while the women will try to analyze what is behind the motives for saying that . She may even torture herself trying to find the correct meanings to his real intentions .

Women don't lie , they only tell half truths. If she caught you telling a lie, your credibility will be shot to pieces . You will face a very uphill task trying to convince her. There are only certain situations where you can lie to her and be forgiven ....



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Are women silly ?

What do you really mean by being silly ? There are silly women as well as silly men among us and sometimes they can be a pain in the a$$.

According to the dictionary.com , a silly person is a weak-minded or lacking good sense; stupid or foolish,absurd; ridiculous; irrational, a lack of wisdom,lacking seriousness or responsibility or frivolous.

Ask most men and they will tell you that women are more silly than them. You cannot blame them because women are totally different species from them and speak in a strange and secret language.

They will say one thing and then leave you to decipher what they mean or expect you to read what is in their train of thoughts. The men should pay attention not only in those words that comes out of her mouth but the real meaning of those words in action.

It is a surprise that most women are born and think alike and if you know how a woman thinks, then you are pretty safe from saying or doing the wrong things.

It is not easy to understand a woman and some men just give up and accept that she is just a 'woman' and what women stand for . Period! Women are too complex for the men to understand and even for the women sometimes.

It is like wanting to say a lot of words but putting them into a micro dot like those secret agents when they send their reports back to their headquarters.

The men should then understand the woman's code for his own good. Do not take her words at face value when you are talking to any woman. If you want to be in her good books, you ought to learn what are the appropriate words or actions to take .

It may take a lifetime to learn about them but it is well worth the efforts as you will be well rewarded for your pains and sacrifices.

Most women are talkers and sometimes, their silliness shows when they  blabber on and on .It can be tiring on the ears and some men have built in a defense against it by pretending to hear while their minds are elsewhere.


Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/125928/what_women_say_and_what_they_mean.html?cat=41

http://english.pravda.ru/society/family/12-11-2008/106687-silly_women-0

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Cooking is nonsense !

NO COOKED FOOD ONLY RAW
What is the purpose of life ?

It is very fortunate for most of us that the price of petrol have come down recently to below US$60.00, from a high of US$150.00. Otherwise, we will have to follow this woman's lifestyle.

Though the petrol price has gone down a lot, many of the prices for foodstuffs and services have resisted the downtrend or only gone down a bit and does not commensurate with the drastic drop in the oil price.

She has lived for 35 years without eating cooked food !!!!! Thus saving her a huge monetary benefits by not using gas or more electricity for the cooking .

How many of us can survive  without cooked food? It is a matter of taste. Cooked food may taste better but loses some of the vitamins through the process of cooking. Eating fruits and raw vegetable is good for the body.

We cannot be eating raw fish or meat but in some cold countries, they do eat them raw. We can have the Japanese sushi which contains raw fish and fresh oysters, which can be very expensive in some places.

The only way in which we will have to follow her diet would be, if we are carpet bombed or a major catastrophic war breaks out and forced us to go back to the stone age.

She feeds on a diet of nuts, raw fruits and wheatgerms and does not drive, use the washing machine ,watch T.V or take a bath!!!!!! This is like going back into the past before all those inventions.

Some day it may become a reality if Armageddon comes and the world is destroyed. Then if you survive that holocaust, you may learn to live like her.

For now, thanks but no thanks to her way of life. I would rather enjoy what the world can offer me and die a happy person even if it a shorter life.

Food ! Food ! Aaah! And all those glorious and delicious food. For many are gluten's. The food is available 24 hours and everywhere in my country.


Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1086413/The-REAL-Green-Goddess-The-eco-friendly-granny-lived-cooked-food-heating--lightbulbs-35-years.html

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I'm not ready for a relationship?

YOU ARE TERMINATED !
Decipher man talk.

You probably would have heard this once too many times or their equivalent of that they want to be alone when they want to leave you .

It is an often used excuse to tell you that they are no more into you  and are opting out. They do not see any future with you and by saying those words, they hoped to cushioned the impact of their leaving you in the dumps. Those are just sugar coated words to minimize the hurt and make you feel better .

It is better this way than to be blunt and telling you directly into your face that they do not like you anymore or some words to that effect. Many men cannot bring themselves to tell you the truth as they do not want to hurt you .They started it and they want to end it . You were like a ball to enjoy and to throw away when he has lost interest in you.

They do not really mean what they say as they will soon  be seen in the arms of another girl. Do not be surprised or baffled because they say one thing but do another.

If you hear those words from the men, it means that you are not his kind of girl and he wants to be a friend only and nothing more.This is the way men talk.

Every relationship starts off like a good fairy tale . They fall in love and when the magic dust disappears, they see each others faults . They have reached the watershed in their relationship and have to decide to continue on the same road or to go different ways.

There could be many reasons why the men want to break off the relationship.It could be boredom or that he found something about you which he does not like or he found somebody better or simply , he is the non committal type.

Whatever the case, they have come to a dead end or a mental road block and must part. The end of a short and sweet love, for parting is such sweet sorrow or tears of joys.

He is not destined for you and that's it. Get over it and move on with your life.

Reference and thanks to :-

http://ezinearticles.com/?Why-Men-Say-One-Thing-and-Do-Another&id=1436787

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Girl, 13, wins legal right to die !

SHE WANTS TO MEET HER MAKER !
Never give up hope till your last breath.

It is very sad and tragic when one gives up all hope of living and decide to end one's life. Hannah Jones, from Marden near Hereford,UK, has a hole in her heart meaning it can only pump a fraction of its normal capacity.

She had enough of the medical treatments and spurned a heart transplant . There is nothing the hospital or authorities can do in her case if she decided to let go and die . There is no law to compel her to have a heart transplant . She has a terminal heart condition.

If she chose to reject modern medicine and no amount of persuasions can change her decisions, we can only respect her and hope that she will find the peace and tranquility for the last days of her life.

Do you agree with her decisions ?

She has decided  that she will not go for a heart transplant and leave everything to fate.  Her parents and many others have expressed their opinions  and agreed with her decisions. This is really sad when there are medical solutions to help her to stay alive.

Can a 13 years old have the mental faculty to think what is good for herself? Can she understand the full implications of her decision? Is she mentally able to think what is right or wrong? Should her parents agree with  her wish ?

Over in this part of the world where I live ,one would try everything possible to live until there is no more alternatives . You do not give up the will to live or survive until you have run out of options . Only those who are too poor who cannot afford those expensive treatment will resigned to their fate. Even if one is poor and if they need financial help , they can always seek donations from the public through the newspapers.

Right or wrong, it is her decision and her parents who accepted  her wishes. Our hearts go out for her and we can only pray that she will make the right decisions and hope for divine interventions.

There must be a will to live and to fight against all odds and  if there is none ,we will just let life slip away.

Hope is like a road in the country; there was never a road, but when many people walk on it, the road comes into existence. - Lin Yutang:



Reference and thanks to ;-

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1084531/Girl-13-wins-right-die-doctors-tried-to-court-force-heart-transplant.html

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Real or bogus cops ?

BEWARE OF SNATCH THIEVES !
You are not Robocop.

A heroic and brave teenager lost his life while trying to catch some snatch thieves. It is a very sad day and our hearts goes out to him and his family for their great loss.

He went to the aid of the victim when he heard the victim's cries for help but unknown to him , it seems like a four men team of snatch thieves on two motor bikes were on the prowl.

While chasing after the first pair, a second pair coming from behind him , kicked his bike ,causing him to fall and knock his head against the road divider. He succumbed to his injuries .

The first pair were dressed in police uniform and pretended to check on the victim's identity by asking her for her ID card. Then one of them snatched her purse and they scooted off.
 I am not sure if they are real cops or bogus ones. There are rogue cops who moonlight as snatch thieves.

If we are stopped by any uniformed or plainclothes policeman, the first thing we need to do is to ask for their authority card and take note of their serial numbers before we do anything they asked .

You will know if they are real or bogus policeman and then take the appropriate actions. If they are aggressive or threatening  then most probably they are bogus cops because real policeman would be polite and civil.

If  anyone is planning to go after a snatch thief, beware , they do not work alone and most probably in pairs and they may carry offensive weapons on them.

Do not go after them alone, try to get some help or take note of the clothes or the face or the make of his motorbike. The numbers on the motorbike is most probably a false number.

Sometimes what is stolen is not worth the risk .It maybe a few $$$ in her bag and a life is wasted  in this case.. It would be safer to keep your money in your pockets or secret compartments  and carry an inexpensive  handbag just for your other things.

Be alert always, the moment you alight from your vehicle. Survey the scene and if you see a man on a motorbike , be careful.His accomplice is probably nearby waiting for the unsuspecting victim to strike.



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http://tnp.sg/news/story/0,4136,181989,00.html?

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Dare to complain about the service , eat sh*t !

WANT TO COMPLAIN ?
Here ! Have some choc sh*t !

An Australian family holidaying in a Sydney hotel  were treated to a very special kind of ice cream  after complaining about the bad service . Take that ! Urrgh!

"There were four scoops including vanilla, chocolate and hazelnut. At the bottom, there appeared to be chocolate........"

Don't mess with those service people. You can tip generously but not criticize them or you will get that 'extra's' in your food. Your food may contain less substance or added more substance into it. This is not a joke.

Those people in the service line do not take kindly to your complains . Not all those people are like that but there are black sheep's in those industries and it is your unlucky day if you meet one of those evil people.

The hotel is willing to settle with the victims but the victims are asking for AU$1 million..WOW!!!!!Someone played a prank and it will cost the hotel dearly and a reputation that will go down the gutters.

Whenever I find the service or food is poor, I will not go back to that establishment again and neither do I want to complain about their food or service.

I have heard a few horror stories from friends who worked previously in those service oriented industries. This story really beats them all! Goodness gracious!

Reference and thanks to :-

http://tnp.sg/news/story/0,4136,181655,00.html?

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Should I make my own porn video for my husband ?

WANNABE PORN STAR
It will come back to haunt you .

 Whether your husband asked you to make a porn movie for him or you feel the urge to make one for yourself, you will need to ponder the grave consequences and the aftermath of your sex movie.
With today's new technology it is easy for anyone to make a porn movie with one as the main star.  Some have done that and send it to their b/f or husband for his pleasure . There are pro's and cons.
I hold the view that it is inappropriate and stupid to make such a movie as what will happen if your movie falls into the wrong hands? You may think you can keep it in a very safe place but no one can guarantee it will not come out in the open. There have been cases where such private video's mysteriously appear out of nowhere.
The recent case of the Hong Kong superstar, Edison Chen  where his laptop was sent for repairs and all those intimate pictures of him and several female stars were stolen and uploaded into the net , causing him and those actresses tohave a premature end to their bright careers.

No one can guarantee that your b/f or husband will be by your side forever and when one day they are on the other side, your video will become a weapon against you . You will be ashamed and ridiculed  and will have no place to hide your face.
If you do it without your husband's permission , he may be insulted and feel contempt over you . Some men are hypocritical in nature and they have double standards. They like to watch other girls doing it but not their own spouse.
Some men have a higher regard for their spouse and do not expect their spouse to be like those cheap  trash.If you sleep with another women , it is considered cheating and this will affect your relationship with him. You will be blamed for all the ills in your marriage.

Some men watch porn and it maybe just a passing fad or he could if not careful will become a porn addict. Most men watch porn on and off in their life.
There are other ways to encourage him for more sex and making a porn video of oneself  is definitely not the way to solve his lack of interest in sex.
Perhaps watching those porn video's together may make him have more sex  with her. Men are after all visual creatures .


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Why do men cheat on their wives?

SEX , LIES & LUST
Can a man really loves a woman and sleep with another ???

Not all men cheat ,only those who are not morally or religiously strong and do not fear God . The fear of God can prevent a man from cheating because he fears the consequences .

A religious person who does not fear God can still cheat because he is only human and tempted by the devil. I believed on our own strength , we will not be able to overcome those temptations.We will need the super natural strength of God to fight against such type of temptations.

One cannot just blame it all on the men because it takes two to tango. Many men will fail the beauty trap.  They are just weak and do not have the strength to fight against that temptation or when they are faced with a very young, pretty and sexy  siren.

Cheating is wrong and there are no excuses for this crime. They will reap what they sowed.

Men want their wives to be a lady of the house and a courtesan  in the bedroom .This is like wanting the beautiful and curvaceous secretary on one side and a nice and loving wife on the other. Most women would not be able to play those twin roles when there are children and a household to run. As a result, some of the men stray and commit this sin .

They are having the cake and eating it as well. The men would like to sit on the fence as long as they can and do nothing about the situation until one side force them to quit.

They will lie through their teeth and will never admit to the affairs even if you have the evidence. To admit the truth will be the end of their world .

We are all humans and there are times when we do not get along well with our partners and at this vulnerable times, affairs can be born. When the man feels there is no more loves ,they tend to stray because of the lack of emotional attachments. Life becomes a bore and they would look outside to satisfy their urges.

Sometimes it is not just about sex but about feelings of being appreciated and loved.  They may have been taken for granted by their wives.

If you think it is not your fault that he has cheated , then blame it on their genes. It is no laughing matter when the man cheats. Think of what your wife will go through her mind when she finds out.

It is a very terrible mistake to destroy your family because of one silly mistake. All those years you built up and share with her will be gone forever and would never be the same again. You will regret it all your life.


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Snitch On A Cheating friend ?

YOUR CHEATING HEART
Be a hero or the devil ?

Would you tell your friend's husband/wife or gf/bf if you found out your friend was cheating?

There are two school of thoughts. One group thinks it is morally right to tell and the other group thinks that it is none of their business. Who is right ?

I do not think it is right to tell our friend that his/her partner is cheating. How do you know s/he is cheating just because you saw them together a few times ? You maybe branded a busy body or a nosy Parker.

Do you have concrete proof that they are cheating? What if you were wrong ? Imagine what untold miseries and harm you would do to your friend and your friendship.

You may think that you are protecting your friend but what right have you to spread unconfirmed informations and malinger someone when you do not know exactly anything about their relationship.

Should you share your suspicions with your friend ,absolutely not! It would be much better if you keep those thoughts to yourself and let your friend find out himself/herself.

What you can only tell your friend is what you saw and nothing else and leave them to find out the real truth. You cannot be seen to be jumping  into the conclusion that he/she is cheating without any concrete evidence based on only what you saw them together.

Your friend may not take kindly to your insinuations about his/her partner. Most of them are very protective of their partners and when you go down that road, their minds are closed and will not listen to any negative ideas unless their relationship are soured and there are questions hanging in the air about their faithfulness or philandering ways. They would live in denial and rationalize their

If they are at the point of getting married, telling them would be like standing infront of the track from an oncoming train.I do not think I will want to do that.

If you are thinking of  snitching on a cheating friend, be prepared that you could be treated like an enemy by one or both of them or your friendship be terminated. In the long run , she may after discovering the truth , accept you back but then the friendship will no more be on the same levels again.


Will it be worth it? Maybe, you need to experience the real situation and find out the truth.



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Is Having Sex Everyday Good or Bad ?

MARATHON SEX 
Are you up to the challenge ?

"Having sex everyday will keep the doctor away!" This is not a fallacy as sex is medically proven to keep you healthy and good looking. You do not have to go to those expensive slimming courses or belong to any gym club because you will be burning calories when you have sex.

The more athletic the sex, the more you will burn and stay fitter.Sex is also an antidepressant. When you have sex and enjoying those pleasures, your body produces a substance called serotonin which acts like an antidepressant drug Prozac. This is natural antidepressant produced by your body.
When you feel stressed, sex is the natural antidote .

Regular love sessions can also postpone the onset of menopause, stimulate fertility, and regulate the menstrual cycle.For the men , the more sex they have ., the more the body produces the hormone testosterone. The hormone is able to stimulate tissue replacement and bone growth and prevent osteoporosis.Overall, you would feel much better after sex and you have a longer life span.

In theory ,it is good for our health but in reality it is difficult to have sex everyday as we are so busy with work and stress and are affected by circumstances in life. Maybe, those married couples should try to fit in the time whenever possible.

There are other physiological and psychological factors which has to be taken into account.They may not be able to have sex everyday but as long as they feel contented and happy with each other, they have  achieved their objectives in life.

Is there any side effects from too much sex?

Medically, I think there are no negative side effects as long as you take care of your diets,eat the proper and rich diet , have enough rest and sleep .

The advantages of sex out weights the disadvantages. If you want to stay healthy and be free from sickness, you should consider this natural  remedy.

Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.4-men.org/reasonsforsex.html

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