Is There A Meaning And Purpose In Life?

What is our purpose in life..?

Does life consist of eating ,working, sleeping and exhaling ? Everyday we do the same things over and over again. Some of us may never find out what is our main purpose in our existence.

We were brought into this world not of our choice. Our parents came together, made love and you were the result of that incident.

We may go from the cradle to the tomb and never find out what we are doing in this world.

There are many questions about life which has no answers, or the answers are as elusive as the mist in the morning.

Why u were brought into this world?

Your parents met and fell in love and u were the result of that union.Your mother breastfed you and took care of all your needs till you reached the threshold of your adult life.

Now that you have entered the adult world , you began to think of your sole purpose in life,or what is the real meaning of life?

You found employment to support yourself and gained independent from your parents.You become an entity by yourself.Work does not give u any meanings, it is only a means to an end .Work is a stepping stone to your meaning of life.

Some may never discover what is their purpose in life or some only when they are in their late stages of life.

When they have found what is the purpose of life, they have found their Utopia.
One of the most noble meaning of life is to help others who are the less fortunate.

These people donate money , time and efforts to give hope of a better life to the downtrodden and the unfortunates.Helping others is a meaningful act .Give and you shall be given.

Some become God’s preachers and go out to evangelize and teach the words of God.They find it meaningful ,spreading God’s message of hope and salvation for mankind.

Many of us are just mundane and ordinary people like you and me.We don't have much to donate and are tied down with a job and have to work like slaves to support our family for a better life.We don't have lofty aims but just want to provide a comfortable life to our family.

Those singles and unmarried would want to find a suitable mate to marry and start a family . That would give them a meaning of life. To be a parent and grandparent and find fulfillment.

Blogging here is also meaningful as there are people who will read your crazy ‘craps’ No hard feelings mate . It is just some unstable soul pouring out her poison out of her system. Read more!

Inside A Man's Mind

A man can fall in love when he sees a very beautiful girl .They can be instantly attracted to the beautiful girl and presumed that they are falling in love with her. It may not be love but lust or just purely sexual attractions .

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.A thing of beauty is a joy forever. Every girl is beautiful whether externally or innate.They become ugly only because of the treatment by the unkind and unappreciative man.When a girl marries , she will be at the height of her beauty .

Even any plain Jane can be the queen for the day.Many a time , you attend your friends wedding and see his bride is so radiant and asked why you never noticed her before.

Even if a man were to marry a very beautiful woman as his wife and if he does not know how to treat her , she would looked unhappy and will be sad and joyless.

How the man treats his wife is very important and you will know when you see the wife’s countenance or face. Their face will tell a lot of stories.

You can talk about a woman’s qualities or what you want to looked for in a wife or husband but in a man , beauty supersedes all..!!!

If she has beauty, he will overlooked all her other qualities. He is struck and awed by the love of her beauty and he will want her .”I came ,I saw and I conquered!!”

Whether she will make a good wife or not is immaterial to him. It is only when he see’s another more beautiful woman that he starts to find fault with her and compares them.

Woman should take good care of their external and internal beauty. Her beauty is the strongest attributes in the eyes of man,what good qualities she possessed is only secondary….. Read more!

Growing Old

I don't know if I will get old or not . I hope that I wont grow old and may God take me away when I cannot work anymore to support myself.



To think of going to live with someone and to depend on them totally be it my daughter or son is not my kind of life. It is a great burden to the young to support the old.



Like the Eskimo people , the old will wander into the wild to die or to be eaten by those polar bears. This maybe a radical thought and when the time comes, I wonder if I am able to do it.



The young do not understand the old .The feelings are not the same. A father may sacrifice everything for his children but a son may only think his father is a burden to him.He is too young to understand until he becomes a father and grows older and wiser.





What the father did was a responsibility and it is the responsibility of the father to bring him up.It is like you get an allowance from the government and you don't feel any personal relationship with the government.





You don't feel for your parent’s sacrifice and love who brought u into this world but you only know what you wanted and treated them just like a cash dispensing machine.



When the father is old and unable to work, he would grudgingly take him in but treat the father in a shoddy way and expects the father to blend in with their lifestyle.



The father comes from another world .They are in their twilight world and asking them to change to their lifestyle is wrong.We should allow them to live their way as they have been doing.



We think this is progress and they should change their outlooks to reflect our lifestyles.Some people may feel ashamed of their fathers background or lack of education or country peasant looks.



If without your father/mother, you would not be what you are today. Just love them and allow them to live the life they are so used to….. Read more!

DICTIONARY OF DATING!!

I found this on the net and it makes interesting readings. Credit is given to this unknown writer

ATTRACTION - The act of associating horniness
with a particular person.

LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT- What occurs when two extremely horny, but not entirely choosy people meet.

DATING - The process of spending enormous amounts of money, time,and energy to get better acquainted with a person whom you don’t especially like in the present and will
learn to like a lot less in the future.

BIRTH CONTROL - Avoiding pregnancy through such tactics as swallowing special pills, inserting a diaphragm, using a condom, and dating repulsive men.

EASY - A term used to describe a woman who has the sexual morals of a man.

EYE CONTACT - A method utilized by a single woman to communicate to a man that she
is interested in him. Despite being advised to do
so, many woman have difficulty looking a man
directly in the eyes, not necessarily due to the shyness,but usually due to the fact that a woman’s eyes are not located in her chest.

FRIEND - A member of the opposite sex in your acquaintance who has some flaw which makes sleeping with him/her totally unappealing.

INDIFFERENCE - A woman’s feeling towards a man, which is interpreted by the man as “playing hard to get.”

INTERESTING -A word a man uses to describe a woman who lets him do all the talking.

IRRITATING HABIT - What the endearing little qualities that initially attract two people to each other turn into after a few months together.

LAW OF RELATIVITY - How attractive a given person appears to be is directly proportionate to how unattractive your date is.

NYMPHOMANIAC - A man’s term for a woman who wants to have sex more often than he does.

SOBER - Condition in which it is almost impossible to fall in love.

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Would You Reject Her ?

A friend came and posed this question to me.

A girl is interested in him but she has only small boobs .So he came and asked me whether there is any way to increase the size of her boobs. He felt let down and he would not be able to enjoy if they get married.

I felt sorry for him because he placed physical enjoyment over the emotional commitments. His love for her was so shallow.

The only way to increase the size with immediate effects is to go for augmentations or operations if she can afford it. There is a new method which injects a substance into the boob and can last for 18 months. The substance will be slowly absorbed into the body. It does not cause any harm according to the doctor.

Some trannys in Thailand just inject silicone into the breast which is very dangerous as the silicone can enter the blood streams and reached the brain to make u sick in due course.It is cheap but a one way street.

There is also the moral side. When u are young , those boobs may look good on u but when u grow old and still have those firmed breast, wont they looked out of placed? Would u go and removed them?

Exercise may increase the tone and firmness of the boobs but it wont be very obvious .Taking hormones may not increase your breast size like what tranny’s take, The pill works differently in a man and woman’s body.If a woman takes the pill, she may gained weight instead in her buttocks or thighs and not in the boobs.I would not suggest woman to take the pills.

There are many medications which said can enlarge the boobs. I think after using a few , they wont work..It is just a waste of money only.

Even in man , some don't get the breast they wanted after taking for more than 1 or 2 years.There are so many brands in the market, usually the cheapest one contains the highest levels of hormones. I think Nordic is the cheapest brand..

I told him , if he wanted boobs or a wife.To some man , a woman without boobs is not appealing and they will not enjoy the fun..They go looking for voluptous ones.It is a matter of taste.

If u love a girl, it doesnt matter if she is airport.Anyway , alot of girls now go for magical pushed up bras or oversized padded bras..keke! Man will always be man…

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Are Boobs Really That Important?

A friend came and posed this question to me. A girl is interested in him but she lacks something ,her small boobs . He came and asked me whether there is any way to increase the size of her boobs.His even boasted that his man boobs were bigger than hers.

I feel sad for him because he let the boobs issue stand in his way . If only he could see the bigger picture that marriage is all about love and commitments and not about physical enjoyments. One cannot blame him totally for thinking that way because of all those media hypes. He was a product of the modern times

The only way to increase the size with immediate effects is to go for augmentations if she can afford it. It will increase her size and hopefully will win his love.

Some trannys in Thailand just inject silicone into the breast which is very dangerous as the silicone can enter the blood streams and reached the brain to make u sick in due course.It is cheap but a one way street.

There is also the moral side. When u are young , those boobs may look good on u but when u grow old and still have those firmed breast, wont they looked out of placed? keek! Would u go and removed them?

Exercise may increase the tone and firmness of the boobs but it wont be very obvious .Taking hormones may not increase ur breast size like what tranny’s take, The pill works differently in a man and woman’s body.If a woman take the pill, she may gained weight instead in her buttocks or thighs and not in the boobs..keke!I wont suggest woman take the pills.

There are many medications which said can enlarge the boobs. I think after using a few , they wont work..It is just a waste of money only.

Even in man , some dont get the breast they wanted after taking for more than 1 or 2 years.There are so many brands in the market. usually the cheapest one contains the highest levels of hormones. I think Nordic is the cheapest brand..

I told him , if he wanted boobs or a wife..keke! To some man , a woman without boobs is not appealing and they will not enjoy the fun..They go looking for voluptous ones.It is a matter of taste. If u love a girl, it doesnt matter if she is airport.Anyway , alot of girls now go for magical pushed up bras or oversized padded bras..keke! Man will always be man…

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Want To Be His Mistress?

In the past,in the Eastern society, the rich man could afford to have many mistresses and many women would not mind being his mistress because they enjoyed all the material things which was lavished on to them.

It was the passport to escape from poverty and whatever misgivings or inconveniences was worth the rewards. These girls married for money and not for love.

If you had a choice , would you prefer to be his wife or his mistress ?

Some woman do not have a choice or Hobson's choice as either they were tricked or cheated by the man or they allowed themselves to be maneuvered into this position. They loved the married man and could not give them up and settled down to be his mistress even though they knew it was not to their best advantage to be in that position.

With the turn of the century where women are liberated and emancipated, most of today's modern women are in the work force. Not all the women get to filled up those highly paid post and most women are employed at the lower levels with lesser pay. The pay may just be enough for them to survive or to support their families back home.

In the big cities , temptations are many and some of these girls are attracted to those bright lights and are slowly drawned to it.

Many of these young , highly educated girls are gainfully employed but many cannot achieve their aspirations of a better life just by their salaries alone or by their own hard labour.

They see others are enjoying a higher standards of life by making themselves available to those rich man or high flyer's who dined and wined them .Life seems so much easier when you can find a rich partner .

They maybe hesitant at first due to ethical and moral considerations but economic and the good life drowned out their resistance and so they too are attracted to that good life.

Some may not be other's mistress but become social escorts or provide some special services where they get rewarded handsomely for their services rendered.

They want a better life, to be able to afford nice beautiful and expensive clothes and accessories,be driven in those sleek sport cars or luxury cars,holidays dine in high class establishments and go partying in clubs .

This is a materialistic world. Nobody gives a damned how you make your money but people will admire your riches and your opulent lifestyles.

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